Similarities
Abortion and adoption have a number of things in common:
- You can pursue the goals and plans you already had.
- You can live independently.
- You won’t have to parent before you are ready.
- You have the freedom to choose whether or not you want to have a long-term relationship with the baby’s father.
- You can resume your education or career.
Differences
| Abortion | Adoption |
|---|---|
| Abortion is final; you can’t reverse your decision. | You’ll have time to plan your baby’s future. |
| You’ll never touch or know your baby. | You can hold and name your baby. |
| You’ll miss the opportunity to see your child grow and develop. | You can have continued contact with your child. |
| Your pregnancy ends with death. | Your pregnancy ends with giving life. |
| You may feel guilt and shame about your choice. | You may feel good and positive about your choice. |